{"id":2381,"date":"2012-08-02T19:09:56","date_gmt":"2012-08-02T19:09:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/?p=2381"},"modified":"2018-07-06T17:07:32","modified_gmt":"2018-07-07T00:07:32","slug":"finally-real-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/home\/2012\/08\/finally-real-women\/","title":{"rendered":"Finally, &#8220;Real&#8221; Women"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pictures posting<\/p>\n<p>Comments flying<\/p>\n<p>Women saying<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Finally, <em><strong>REAL<\/strong><\/em> women&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Wait~!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Skinny women aren&#8217;t Real???<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Once again<\/p>\n<p>We pass judgment<\/p>\n<p>On ourselves<\/p>\n<p>And our sisters<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We define &#8220;Real&#8221; by the shallow<\/p>\n<p>And not the substantive<\/p>\n<p>We feel guilty<\/p>\n<p>Dirty<\/p>\n<p>Unworthy<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We wait to feel beautiful<\/p>\n<p>To love<\/p>\n<p>To <strong><em>live<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Until we are &#8220;perfect&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>By someone else&#8217;s standards<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>But perfect never comes<\/p>\n<p><strong>Our chance passes<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><em>~It&#8217;s heartbreaking~<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Women never living fully<\/p>\n<p>Because they believe a lie<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re not &#8220;Real&#8221; till a marketing ad<\/p>\n<p>Has <em>defined<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Or <em>undefined<\/em> them.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong><em>~It&#8217;s our own fault~<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Measuring ourselves<\/p>\n<p>Our friends<\/p>\n<p>Our children<\/p>\n<p>Complete strangers<\/p>\n<p>By only what we see<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><em><strong>~When will we acknowledge our strength?~<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Embrace this fragile treasure<\/p>\n<p>Of LIFE<\/p>\n<p>And stop caring<\/p>\n<p>About how marketing gurus<\/p>\n<p>Think they&#8217;ll best convince us to consume<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When will we get angry<\/p>\n<p>That a campaign highlighting &#8220;real&#8221; women<\/p>\n<p>Still requires them be photographed in their underwear<\/p>\n<p><em>Still<\/em> objectified solely by sex<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>When will we decide<\/p>\n<p>To stop defining ourselves by our appendages<\/p>\n<p>By bone structure<\/p>\n<p>Muscles<\/p>\n<p>and skin<\/p>\n<p>and a scale<\/p>\n<p>as \u00a0though we are just another piece of meat<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It seems a little ridiculous<\/p>\n<p>When you think about it<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><em><strong>It&#8217;s just flesh<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Yet<\/p>\n<p>In truth so much more<\/p>\n<p>Than a dwelling for our spirit<\/p>\n<p>A phenomenal\u00a0part of us<\/p>\n<p><em>Designed<\/em><\/p>\n<p>To enjoy life&#8217;s sensual pleasures<\/p>\n<p>Taste, feel, sight, smell, sound<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>We are so hampered by sight<\/p>\n<p>We miss the rest<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong><em>When we will embrace the fullness of what we are as women?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>For our daughters<\/p>\n<p>Our fellow-woman<\/p>\n<p>Our lovers<\/p>\n<p>Ourselves<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><em>We are more than the sum of our appendages.<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We are<\/p>\n<p>Spirit<\/p>\n<p>Mystery<\/p>\n<p>Sensual<\/p>\n<p>Designer<\/p>\n<p>Beauty<\/p>\n<p>Provider<\/p>\n<p>Brains<\/p>\n<p>Intuition<\/p>\n<p>Healer<\/p>\n<p>Lover<\/p>\n<p>Nurturer<\/p>\n<p>Hope<\/p>\n<p>Strength<\/p>\n<p>Justice<\/p>\n<p>Courage<\/p>\n<p>Priestess<\/p>\n<p>Light<\/p>\n<p>Love<\/p>\n<p>Beloved<\/p>\n<p>Brilliance<\/p>\n<p>Hilarity<\/p>\n<p>Creativity<\/p>\n<p><em>Life altering,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>World changers.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\">~Each &#8211; perfect, unique works of art~<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>When will we look past<\/p>\n<p>Physique alone<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And recognize the deep beauty<\/p>\n<p>The real-ness of each woman we see<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Especially the one<\/p>\n<p>We greet each morning<\/p>\n<p>In the mirror<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I am ready<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #993366;\"><strong><em>Are you?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Like this post? 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