{"id":2432,"date":"2012-08-09T15:47:42","date_gmt":"2012-08-09T15:47:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/?p=2432"},"modified":"2013-08-21T22:41:24","modified_gmt":"2013-08-22T05:41:24","slug":"organic-mama-wisdom-postpartum-care-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/home\/2012\/08\/organic-mama-wisdom-postpartum-care-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Organic Mama Wisdom: Postpartum Care Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/fat-monna-41.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1451\" title=\"pregnant mama 1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/11\/fat-monna-41-792x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"905\" \/><\/a>My dear friend is having a baby in a few months. As we celebrated her and her entrance to motherhood this weekend, I thought of a few practical tips I wish I&#8217;d known or accepted the first two times I had babies. This last time, as I&#8217;ve gotten back into the swing of baby-mothering, I feel so much more equipped and at peace with my role as my baby&#8217;s primary caretaker.<\/p>\n<p>This postpartum healing experience is so different from my previous births, largely due a shift in my own attitude, approach to what really &#8220;needs&#8221; to get done and my willingness to let Rob pick up the slack. This time, I only took care of the bare minimums around the house and focused my energy on healing, nourishing my baby &amp; loving his daddy and siblings.<\/p>\n<p>As far as practical tips go, here are my suggestions.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Rest<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You just ran a marathon<\/p>\n<p>Climbed Mount Everest<\/p>\n<p>and swam the English Channel<\/p>\n<p>All that energy you feel<\/p>\n<p>Is adrenaline<\/p>\n<p>It wears off<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Bask in the moment of your triumph<\/p>\n<p>Let your body recover<\/p>\n<p>It will take several months<\/p>\n<p>To feel even close<\/p>\n<p>To your old self<\/p>\n<p>Yes<\/p>\n<p>You are normal<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">In the meantime<\/p>\n<p>Allow your friends and family<\/p>\n<p>To celebrate you<\/p>\n<p>And your new small one<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Nurse right after labor<\/p>\n<p>And every chance you get<\/p>\n<p>See a lactation consultant<\/p>\n<p>Birthing centers and hospitals have them<\/p>\n<p>If you have trouble with your baby gaining weight after birth<\/p>\n<p>See one again<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s much easier to fix nursing problems at the beginning while supply is not\u00a0yet established than it will be later<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Rub coconut oil on your nipples after every nursing session<\/p>\n<p>It is better than lanolin &amp; won&#8217;t stain your clothes<\/p>\n<p>Use it on your baby (it prevents cradle cap)<\/p>\n<p>and all over you<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Pretend you&#8217;re relaxing on a beach<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Where there are no dirty dishes<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Go to bed early, you&#8217;ll be up a lot in the night<\/p>\n<p>Take naps, especially if your partner is home<\/p>\n<p><em class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Rest every chance you get<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Eat watermelon<\/p>\n<p>And you won&#8217;t fear your\u00a0first post partum bowel movement<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s better than stool softeners<\/p>\n<p>Use your peri bottle<\/p>\n<p>It will help you heal and cool things off down there<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t try to do housework your first week back<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Let your love help you<\/p>\n<p>In fact, let him be your servant<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">It&#8217;s part of his daddy job<\/p>\n<p>Thank him often and kiss him lots<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Eat nourishing food<\/p>\n<p>Cooked veggies<\/p>\n<p>Or Salads<\/p>\n<p>Fruits<\/p>\n<p>Protein<\/p>\n<p>Carbs<\/p>\n<p>Plenty of healthy fats<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">This is not the time to try to lose weight<\/p>\n<p>You have a baby to feed<\/p>\n<p>And a body to restore<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Ask friends for help<\/p>\n<p>Let loved ones bring you food<\/p>\n<p>And pamper you<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Start every day in the sunshine<\/p>\n<p>Sing<\/p>\n<p>Drink herbal tea<\/p>\n<p><em>With friends<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And relax<\/p>\n<p>It will help you avoid<\/p>\n<p>Postpartum depression<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s plenty of time<\/p>\n<p>To show off<\/p>\n<p>Your new<\/p>\n<p>Super-mom powers<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Later<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Congratulations, Mama.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px; color: #3c156e;\">Love this post? Take 30 seconds and do two things. Stay part of the conversation by joining the email list. No spam. Promise.<\/p>\n<p>And Share this post with someone who needs encouragement today!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/2013\/06\/motherhood-am-i-going-to-survive-this\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\">Read more: Motherhood.\u00a0Am I Going to Survive This?<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"fontplugin_fontid_419_festus\" style=\"font-size: 25px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.organicmamacafe.com\/2012\/12\/making-the-hard-parenting-choices-i-promise-im-not-judging-you\/\" target=\"_blank\">Read more: Making the Hard Parenting Choices. I Promise I&#8217;m Not Judging You.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My dear friend is having a baby in a few months. 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