Caring for Yourself, Mama. It’s a Life and Death Matter

By August 15, 2012 Honest Mothering No Comments

One of the things I constantly talk about in this space is the need for us Mamas to take time out to care for ourselves. This is not just about taking the time to enjoy life the way we were created to enjoy it. Though I do believe we are supposed to enjoy our lives right now.

Taking care of ourselves is important because it directly affects our ability to safely care for our sweet little ones.

Today’s post is meant to be a lesson to all of us as mothers (and dads) to re-evaluate our schedules and ensure that we are ~

Getting enough sleep to function safely

Living IN the current moment

Providing a safe environment for our kids

If you’re tired, Slow down. Pay attention. Minimize your activities.

Leave the laundry and go to bed early.

When we are exhausted, overbooked and distracted, accidents happen, our kids may be endangered and our lives can change in an instant.

I’m not being dramatic here. Today I am introducing you to a dear friend who actually experienced this in her life.

I want to be clear. My above comments are in no way intended as a critique of my friend as a mother or a caretaker of small children. I have known her for over twenty years – along with her mother, dad, sisters and husband. She is an excellent woman, caring, compassionate, thoughtful and intelligent. She is a CAREFUL caretaker of the lives entrusted to her. I love her and I would not hesitate to entrust my kids to her care.

But in one moment, her entire worldview was changed because of a tired, overscheduled day not very long after giving birth.

Her story could happen to any of us.

So – please. NO JUDGMENT.

I am sending you to her blog today. You, my dear friends, have been such an encouragement to me in times of grief and upheaval. Please extend to her the same kindness, the same love, the same encouragement.

Here is  Megan’s story.

http://www.o-show.blogspot.com/2012/08/yesterday-brought-me-to-my-knees.html

http://www.o-show.blogspot.com/2012/08/yesterday-brought-me-to-my-knees-part-2.html

 

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